Podcast Episode Details

Why Rushing Relationships Creates Damage: Desire Does Not Equal Readiness

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Love,

In this episode of Marital Inspirations with Montoya, we build on last week’s conversation about trust, timing, and the way God prepares rooms and people—often quietly and intentionally.

Today’s focus is a truth we don’t talk about enough:

Rushing relationships unintentionally creates damage.

Not because we don’t mean well.
Not because we don’t desire something healthy.
But because desire is often confused with readiness.

In this episode, Montoya gently unpacks:

• Why wanting a relationship does not mean you’re prepared for one
• How good intentions cannot replace the formation required for healthy love
• Why skipping preparation leads to unhealed layers surfacing later
• What happens when two people enter relationships from empty or half-empty cups
• Why conflict often begins when there is nothing left to give—not because love failed

This conversation is not about condemnation or delay.
It’s about clarity, responsibility, and honoring the process God uses to build lasting relationships.

If you’re single, this is an invitation to prepare well—not rush ahead.
If you’re married and things feel strained, this is an opportunity to slow down and restore order.
And if you feel unsettled right now, that may not be confusion—it may be God inviting you to pause before you proceed.

Because love doesn’t require rushing.
It requires readiness.

And readiness is something God builds—never something we force.

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Until next time, Love,
stay anchored in Christ and covered in love. 💛

— Montoya

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