Episode Details

Premature ejaculation, tantra, rope, and group sex—Leo shares how he transformed lifelong sexual shame into a deeply embodied, sensual Dominant power that’s reshaped his relationships, parenting, and pleasure.

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📈 STATS | 45 hetero-flexible cis male, Danish, into: kink, rope play, group play, gangbangs, tantra.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Condom confidence and what “sexy” feels like now

02:44 Growing up on a dairy farm, early arousal, and the first glimpses of consent

07:04 First partnered sex, premature ejaculation, and seven years of avoiding intimacy

11:07 Masturbation habits, rowing career discipline, and learning to pleasure partners with hands and mouth

16:08 Cultivating sensitivity, connection, and confidence through practice

17:21 Trauma, grief, and how a devastating accident reshaped his marriage and sexuality

20:01 Opening their marriage, jealousy, desire, and years of non-monogamous exploration

22:10 The tantric woman who told him “you cannot come,” fear, bliss, and the moment everything changed

26:06 Trying to bring tantra home, mismatch with his wife, and the beginning of the end of their marriage

28:16 Sex-positive communities, Sunday Clubs, and learning to be a sexual being around other people

31:13 Rope as sensuality—kinbaku, shibari, and discovering how tying feels like using his whole body

34:17 Dominance, dirty talk, and why he’s a sensual top

39:59 Porn expectations and learning to savor erotic energy

42:26 Creativity born from “coming too fast,” sensual play, and building sexual skills

47:14 Trauma-aware partner selection, emotional responsibility, and navigating triggers

49:46 Turn-ons, turn-offs, and when he feels most alive

53:01 MFMs, group play, sex clubs, and why intimacy matters more than spectacle

59:39 Where he comes, where partners want it, and the joy of messy sensuality

01:00:14 Private porn, sexting boundaries, and what it’s like teaching sex ed

01:02:18 Submissive partners, rope dates, and upcoming explorations

01:05:09 Being a sexual person and a parent

01:06:00 Advice to younger self: keep believing your body’s truth and creating a world where people can connect more deeply

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