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Why Everyone Says ‘I Wish I’d Done It Sooner’—Divorce Truths You Need to Hear with Divorce Attorney Lindsey Andrews
Season 1 Episode 166
There’s a moment in many marriages that seems small on the surface—a missed gesture, a forgotten request, a quiet disappointment—but carries the weight of everything that came before it. In this episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell sits down with Lindsey Andrews, a divorce attorney turned divorce coach with more than 20 years of experience in family law, to talk about those moments—and why they matter. From Oklahoma City to Rome, Italy, Lindsey brings both legal authority and lived wisdom to a conversation about what really pushes people to finally say, I can’t do this anymore.
Lindsey, a Fresh Starts Expert, shares what she’s learned after guiding thousands of clients through divorce: that most people don’t lack clarity—they lack confidence. Known for her tenacity and “bulldog” approach, Lindsey explains how she loans her determination to clients when they’re at their weakest, helping them make hard decisions, set boundaries, and find their voice again. She introduces the unforgettable “basil moment”—a story about a woman whose breaking point wasn’t betrayal or abuse, but years of being unseen—illustrating how emotional neglect, not just conflict, is often at the heart of divorce.
The conversation also tackles one of the most terrifying aspects of divorce: money. Lindsey makes a compelling case for financial literacy as emotional empowerment, explaining why understanding your budget, expenses, and financial reality is often the first step toward freedom and long-term divorce recovery. Her message is both grounding and hopeful: divorce is financially devastating—but it doesn’t have to be forever. Listeners will walk away with clear, actionable guidance on preparing for divorce, recognizing emotional breaking points, and trusting the inner voice that so many people later wish they’d listened to sooner.
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