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326 | Vibrating Tarot: Frank Lawrence’s Sex Stories
Episode 326
Erotic tarot meets sex education—Frank Lawrence breaks down The Vibrating Tarot, a pleasure-product-based tarot deck designed to spark intuition, curiosity, and deeper connection.
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📈 STATS | 42 pansexual cis male, he/him pronouns, in a 24-year long monogamous partnership, married for the last four years, vegetarian, lucid dreamer, astral projector, graphic designer, typographer, reads Tarot for clients and offers a class on Sigil design, Canadian, into: exploring the intersection of the Erotic and the Esoteric, dancing at the crossroads of Kink and the Occult, gardening poisonous plants, collecting old typewriters, and playing the saw.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Aging into authenticity, creative exchange, and why confidence is sexy
05:41 Introducing the Vibrating Tarot deck and its pleasure-centered origins
06:43 Replacing tarot figures with pleasure products and honoring indie makers
09:30 Sex toys vs. “pleasure products,” censorship, and reclaiming play
11:01 The four tarot suits reimagined: rope, lube, impact, and plugs
13:00 Fire, water, air, and earth as erotic metaphors for desire and connection
16:58 Impact play, consent, intellect, and reading a partner’s body cues
20:12 Grounding, stability, and why butt plugs represent the suit of earth
22:02 The 120-page guidebook, sex education, and embracing educator energy
27:56 Using the deck as a playful exploration map and personal bucket list
31:02 Intuitive tarot reading through color, form, and lived experience
34:24 Hybrid lube, shared ground, and what different materials symbolize
38:10 Laughter, learning, and taking erotic curiosity into social spaces
42:16 Sex education influences, Sue Johanson, and learning through curiosity
46:21 Professionalism vs. salaciousness in the pleasure industry
50:06 Reading erotic ta
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