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This week on Five Rules for the Good Life, I sit down with bartender, beverage consultant, and all-around cocktail whisperer Linda Douglas to talk about her Five Rules on Building an at Home Bar. She shares the importance of intention when choosing base spirits, to learning how to batch drinks like a pro, all while demystifying the world of mixology with warmth, clarity, and a healthy pour of real-world experience. Whether you’re starting from scratch or ready to level up, this episode gives you the tools to build a home bar that works for you and your guests.

I love this episode because it removes the mystery of putting together an at home bar. You don’t need a rolling cart or fancy bottles or an encyclopedic knowledge of spirits—just a little curiosity and a few smart tips. Linda’s advice lets you build confidence as you learn what you like, what to serve, and how to host without stress. Best of all, it helps you find your signature cocktail—the one you make without thinking, the one that makes people smile when they walk in the door. That’s the power of hospitality, and that’s what makes this episode so special.

Hello, and happy holidays.

Welcome to Five Rules for the Good Life.

I’m your host, Darin Bresnitz.

Today, I sit down with LA bartender extraordinaire, Linda Douglas, who can be seen crafting cocktails at Donna’s and serving up her own creations at her excellent events across the city and the world. Today, she shares her five rules on building an at-home bar. She talks about the importance of personalizing what you put together, that intentional curation will help with cost when it comes to buying liquor, and how picking your bartender’s brain is the best way to build the best collection at home.

It’s a fantastic conversation for anyone who’s ever wanted to have their own little speakeasy in their house, serving up crafted cocktails for loved ones at home. She also shares her recipe for a freezer door martini, which can be seen in the episode description below.

So let’s get into the rules.

Linda, such a pleasure to see you. Thank you for making time during the busy holiday season.

Great to see you. Thanks for having me. I’m excited for this.

When I was reading up on you and your inspirations, one of the inspirations of yours that I love was nostalgia. What do you love about looking backwards to create something new?

Besides always trying to figure out what trends are going on, mainly because of my brain rot on TikTok. Knowing that flavor trends bring things back to base of home and nostalgia comes back to a sense of making people feel good, whether they’re drinking a beverage or spending time at your restaurant. And nostalgia is different for everybody. And it hits at the same place, though. It’s a constant journey to find everybody’s little bit of nostalgia that we can all come together with.

When we dined at Donna’s, the idea of nostalgia and a different era of a restaurant that has been updated definitely came into play. I found that as much with the food as with the cocktails that you made for us. What old ideas have you brought into the new world with the cocktails that you helped make at the restaurant?

When we build on how we want our guests to feel, we think about making people feel that they’re coming back to a place, whether it’s their first time there or their 30th time.

I love that. Really making things welcoming and not intimidating.

And that’s a really big part of my process with cocktails and storytelling. People should be excited to ask for their very first martini, not be intimidated by asking what a certain ingredient is. The thought of sharing a bit of why we’re excited as bartenders and hospitality professionals to be a part of everybody’s special moment or just their regular Monday night. Having pride in our work goes and overflows into our guests having