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Decide Your Vibe: How I Chose Who I Want to Be
Episode 75
What if you could choose who you want to be, no matter your past? In this episode, Rhonda shares how realizing you have the power to decide—moment by moment—can transform your life, break you free from blame and shame, and open the door to a life you design.
Today, I want you to realize something that took me years to understand: you are deciding who you are, every single day. For so long, I blamed my circumstances, I blamed my losses, my history, everyone else. I thought fear was something other people felt, not me. But the truth is, I was living stuck, not knowing my power.
This episode is about that breakthrough moment when I realized: I can decide who I want to be. Not who I was raised to be, not who I was yesterday, but who I want to become, starting now. I’ll walk you through how this single idea blew my mind and changed everything, and show you simple ways to start choosing, in each moment, the life you want.
If you’ve ever thought, “This is just how I am—my past made me this way,” this episode is your invitation to let go of blame and open the door to possibility. You can decide who you are—starting now.
What You’ll Discover
- How to recognize when you’re stuck in old stories or blame—and what to do instead
- Why deciding “who you want to be” is a radical act of self-love
- Simple ways to take back your power, one decision at a time
- How to separate your past from your present, and stop letting it define you
- Why every moment is a chance to choose the life you want
Key Takeaway
You are not fixed by your past. Every moment is a new choice—and you hold the power to decide who you want to be.
Key Quote
"It was just so mind boggling, the concept that I could decide. You're deciding every single moment of every single day who you are, each and every moment."
– Rhonda
Resources
- Journal prompt: In an area where you feel stuck, ask yourself: “Who do I want to be instead?” Then write down one small step to practice today.
- Explore more tools and encouragement at fearlessliving.org
Invitation
Pause and ask yourself: Who am I deciding to be—right now, today? Write your intention where you’ll see it. Practice choosing, each day. And let me know—@LoveNotesFromRhonda—who you’re becoming. If you found this episode meaningful, share it with one friend who needs the reminder today.
Reply with your story: When have you decided who you want to be, and what helped you move forward?
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