Episode Details

Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson join us today to talk about reciprocity in intimate relationships in this helpful and hopeful episode! Julia and Jeremiah are married therapists whose mission is to support relationships in reclaiming sexuality following adverse religious experiences. Their gentle approach invites us all into new ways of being and knowing, ourselves and others. We loved their kind and thoughtful approach to sex, intimacy, and learning how to listen to our bodies and our yearning. 

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Poetry and Themes of Connection
01:03 Exploring the Wild Goose Festival and Its Impact
02:43 Navigating High Control Environments and Personal Growth
05:40 Defining Reciprocity in Relationships
08:08 Understanding Differentiation and Interdependence
11:09 The Role of Purity Culture in Sexuality
13:53 The Political Nature of Sexuality and Relationships
16:15 Deconstructing Shame and Reclaiming Autonomy
19:05 Steps Towards Healing from Purity Culture
21:42 Intuition, Yearning, and Self-Discovery
24:31 The Importance of Play in Sexuality
27:16 Imagination and Reconstruction of Beliefs
30:24 Experimentation in Relationships and Sexuality
31:25 The Impact of Nature on Intimacy and Connection
34:02 Intimacy as a Pathway to Connection
36:49 Practical Steps to Cultivate Intimacy
39:10 Recommended Resources for Vulnerability and Reciprocity
42:10 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions