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Back to Episodes70-Year-Old Virgin's Journey - Unlocking Sexual Fulfillment at Any Age with Surrogate Partner Therapy | #170
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What happens when you wake up at 70 and ask yourself, "How the hell did I become a virgin?" That question set Faythe on a path from conservative religious upbringing to claiming pleasure as her birthright. Her journey will challenge everything you think you know about sexuality and aging. In this episode, we sit down with all three people involved in surrogate partner therapy: Faythe (the client), Dan Powers (the surrogate), and Deb Azorski (the therapist). This is the first time we've been able to show you the complete triadic model in action, and the conversation gets beautifully real about attachment, healing religious shame, and the revolutionary act of prioritizing pleasure in your 70s.
WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
- How surrogate partner therapy actually works with three professionals, not the Hollywood version of six sessions but a year-and-a-half structured relationship
- Faythe's transformation from "hell no" after her first Zoom call to discovering what her body was capable of experiencing
- Dan's specific techniques for building safety and trust, from room setup to going slowly enough that clients feel truly secure
- Why weekly therapy sessions with Deb were essential throughout the process and how they handled the inevitable attachment that develops
- The practical education Faythe gained, from basic lovemaking skills to body awareness that most people never receive
- How this approach helps heal religious trauma and shame while preparing clients for future relationships outside the therapeutic container
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