Episode Details

I had the privilege of sitting down with Paul Elam for this enlightening conversation. Paul is a well known advocate for men’s rights. He is the founder of ‘A Voice for Men’ - the international conference on men’s issues. He inspired the making of ‘The Red Pill’ movie that aired in 2016. He’s been a men’s advisor and counselor for many decades now, and I appreciate how deeply he cares about supporting men.

It was a pleasure to talk to him and I learned so much - I know you will too!

We unpack the hidden assumptions about dating and marriage in the west under the ‘romantic model.' We also spend time getting to the bottom of why men are still so misunderstood in the west and what men need now more than anything.

Listen in to learn about the origins of the romantic model, different priorities of men and women, what’s missing from the mythopoetic movement, the change in male consciousness, the biggest killer of men, what a woman owes her marriage, being a ‘guardian of respect,’ and so much more.

Connect With Paul:

Via X: https://x.com/RealPaulElam

Via Substack: https://paulelam.substack.com/

XY Crew: https://paulelam.com/xycrew/

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 — Intro & Preview: "Coddled Princesses" 

00:32 — Welcome: Introducing Paul Elam

01:53 — A Brief History of the Men's Movement 

02:36 — From 1920s Protests to the Mythopoetic Movement 

04:36 — The "Red Pill" Explosion & Its Flaws 

05:49 — The Missing Piece: Accountability for Women 

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