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Stop Worrying About What Your Mom Thinks of Your LinkedIn

Stop Worrying About What Your Mom Thinks of Your LinkedIn

Published 3 months, 1 week ago
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Is Your LinkedIn Personal Branding Built for Buyers or Bystanders?

“Respectfully, you are not my audience.”

Performance coach Giselle Ugarte said that on a recent episode of the Sales Gravy Podcast, and it might be the most liberating thing you’ll hear about LinkedIn personal branding this year.

Because somewhere between building your profile and hitting publish on that post, you’ve started making decisions based on what your college roommate might think. Or your former boss. Or yes, your mom.

The hard truth? None of them are writing you commission checks.

The Real Reason Your LinkedIn Personal Branding Falls Flat

You’ve heard “be authentic” and “show up as yourself” so often that the advice has lost all meaning. So you end up in a strange middle ground where you’re not polished enough to impress executives and not human enough to connect with actual buyers.

Your LinkedIn personal branding suffers because you’re creating content for ghosts. People who will never hire you, never refer you, never sign a contract. You’re worried about the wrong audience, and that hesitation shows up in every word you type.

Think about the last post you almost published but didn’t. What stopped you? Probably not a legitimate business concern. More likely, you had a flash of “what will people think?” and that voice didn’t belong to your ideal client. It belonged to someone in your network who wouldn’t buy from you if you were the last salesperson on earth.

Who Your LinkedIn Content Is Really For

Your LinkedIn personal branding should speak to three groups:

  •  Current clients
  •  Prospective clients
  •  People who can refer you to clients

That’s it. Everyone else is background noise.

When you post about closing a tough deal, your brother who works in IT might think you’re bragging. Your client, who fought through the same challenge, is nodding in agreement.

When you share a lesson from a deal that went sideways, your high school friend might wonder why you’re airing dirty laundry. Your prospect is realizing you understand their world.

The disconnect happens because you’re trying to serve two masters. You want to build real relationships with buyers while also maintaining some imaginary professional image for people who have zero impact on your business.

The Transform 20: LinkedIn Personal Branding That Actually Works

If you’re going to shift your LinkedIn personal branding from performative to productive, you need a system. Not another “post three times a week” generic advice pile, but something that forces you to focus on real humans instead of vanity metrics.

Giselle’s practical framework, Transform 20, breaks down into four daily actions, each designed to build actual relationships:

Connect with 5 new people.

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