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Giver of Firsts: Zee’s Sex Stories
Episode 65
Autism, kink, rope suspension, and butt-stuff joy—Zee shares how understanding their hypersensitive body transformed sex into the most grounding, expansive pleasure of their life.
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📈 STATS | 32 pansexual non-binary trans kinky submissive, they/them pronouns, on the autism spectrum, masochist, has PTSD.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Growing up autistic: sensory overwhelm, masking, and discovering pressure-based pleasure
05:19 Early masturbation creativity, tight spaces, firm touch, and finding BDSM before they had language for it
08:49 Teen girlfriend/Domme, rope experiments, consent, and learning deep compatibility at an early age
13:07 Orgasms from wrists, nipples, elbows, thighs, and redefining what “counts” as sex
17:03 Dry humping, partnered sexual debut, and learning to ask for the sensations that actually feel good
22:00 Bottoming, disability, chronic fatigue, and why giving their pleasure is a gift
24:05 Zee’s approach to giving anal: shower rituals, emotional assurance, lube, tongue, fingers, and dissolving butt shame
28:11 Sex with disability: negotiating movement, code words, and pleasure with wheelchair users
31:32 Psychological relaxation, rimming confidence, sphincter responses, and inviting deeper sensation
37:52 Autistic communication in sex: pressure over light touch, staying in one sensory track, avoiding disruptive switches
41:02 Rope suspension highs, upside-down calm, masochistic pleasure, and deep-pressure hypnosis
47:18 Pet play dynamics, hierarchy, innocence, animal noises, and tail plug joy
50:13 Daddy–baby dynamics, regression comfort, and being a playful baby dragon
53:10 Luna explores her own fantasies: rope curiosity, firefighter blowjobs, DP dreams, and gangbang yearning
55:41 Advice to younger self: refusing insecure partners and trusting your erotic needs as valid
Originally released March 2020.
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