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Welcome back to the ABGW miniseries, where we carve out five-minute moments to reconnect with the calm, capable version of you hidden under that never-ending to-do list. I'm Cheryl, your guide through this journey of small steps making a big difference. Today, we're diving into the murky waters of fear and failure, and debunking the myth of perfection.

Have you ever felt that nagging voice in your head, whispering doubts just as you’re about to unleash a brilliant idea? Meet Fear, the world's most persuasive creative consultant, always ready to derail your creativity with thoughts like, "It won't be good enough." I’ve been there too, agonising over choices like selecting the perfect podcast jingle for days, convinced that my entire career hinged on that one decision. But here's the kicker: fear masquerades as perfectionism, convincing us that flawless equals safety.

But guess what? You can’t reach perfection without those messy drafts, and you can’t create those drafts if you never take the leap. It’s like driving with the handbrake on—you're moving, but the panic is palpable. One night, I decided to hit record anyway, imperfections and all, and to my surprise, it resonated with listeners. They loved the authenticity of it all! It was a turning point for me; I realised that done is better than perfect, and that vulnerability often shines brighter than polish.

We all don our invisible armour to protect our egos, but that armour can be heavy and stifling. So, here’s your invitation: lower the bar! Scribble that bad poem, sing that off-key verse, and share that video with dodgy lighting. Remember, courage isn’t the absence of fear; it’s about moving forward despite it. Perfectionism never changed the world—bravery and messiness did.

Join me next time as we explore why creativity thrives in company and how solitude might be your biggest creativity block. If anything resonated with you today, don’t overthink it—act on it! One small choice, one calmer breath, one shift is all it takes to spark change. Your pace is perfect because every step brings you closer to a brighter future.

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