Episode Details

In this episode, Sam sits down with William(!!!) to answer your burning questions about the male brain in relationships. He’s really smart, so instead of it being cheeky and silly, it’s actually pretty deep. (Okay, it’s also a bit cheeky and silly.) They cover what men are looking for in a partner, expectation-setting in relationships, when to stop seeing other people (not that William has ever seen other people), the work you do on yourself to show up in a healthy relationship, how to find out if a guy is serious about you, bringing up the “official” conversation, how to know if you’re in love, and, perhaps most importantly, how to know if they’re “the one.”

Listen to this episode if you want to know how to train your man to surprise you with flowers.

Key moments:

05:00 How we met

06:19 The three meetings theory (similar to invisible string)

08:42 “You’re 23, they’re not the one”

12:04 When they start “looking” - from a man’s perspective

14:03 Becoming “ready” to find their person

15:34 Cab light theory vs. he can only be “ready” for the right person

16:22 Tinx’s box theory

18:52 Changing yourself for a man (literally vom)

19:50 William’s rules of dating

21:01 Why he might not text daily - from a man’s perspective

22:31 When you stop seeing other people

26:09 Setting expectations but not communicating them

28:26 What men are looking for in a partner

29:26 The work you do on yourself to show up in a healthy relationship

30:59 Relationship anarchy and expecting your partner to be everything to you (i.e. partner, best friend, therapist, etc.)

32:17 How to live in service without people-pleasing

37:14 How to tell if a guy is serious about you

41:38 How to bring up the “official” or “I love you” conversation

43:09 Saying “I love you” first

44:52 Compromise vs. changing for the other person

45:38 How to know if they’re “the one”

46:53 Is love a product of fate or choice?

48:36 How you know if you’re in love

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