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#131 Virtue and the Four Tendencies in Marriage with Matthew Jandernoa
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Ever feel like you’re carrying everything in your marriage—the emotional load, the spiritual load, the schedules, the growth—and your husband is living on a totally different wavelength?
In this conversation with Catholic men’s coach Matthew Jandernoa, we break down why you and your spouse are wired so differently and why that might actually be the path God wants to use to grow virtue in both of you.
Matthew explains the Four Tendencies, what’s really happening inside your husband’s mind, how ADHD-style wiring affects virtue, and why nothing is “wrong” with you if consistency or temperance feels harder.
We cover:
- Practical communication strategies,
- How to avoid resentment,
- How men actually experience expectations, and
- Why prayer is meant to be enjoyable.
If you’ve ever thought “something must be wrong with me … or us,” this episode will give you a hopeful, freeing framework for understanding yourself, your husband, and your marriage.
Connect with Matthew:
- Website: https://www.steadfastlife.net/
- Email: matthew@steadfastlife.net
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- Book a free Confidence and Clarity Call HERE or email info@kyliemhein.com
- FREE Download - Daily Examen for Every Temperament
- FREE Download - Decluttering By Temperament
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