Alignment Isn’t a Vibe, It’s a Practice

Season 2 Episode 70

Survival mode gets rewarded—until your body, marriage, and joy send the bill. Lara shares the cost of high-functioning pain (multiple miscarriages, misaligned marriage, radical redirection) and how choosing truth over performance rebuilt her life. We walk through Leticia’s 3-phase exit—Self-Awareness → Reprogramming → Reinvention—and show you how to apply it when peace feels foreign and your nervous system only trusts the hustle.

Survival mode = “functioning while falling apart.”
Peace can feel unsafe; your body needs new reps of safety.
Truth-telling in parenting breaks generational survival training.
Alignment is clear intention + clean energy (no manipulation, no masks).
Triggers are teachers; breakdowns are invitations.

🎙️ What We Talk About:

Conditioning survival: why “strong” is often just silenced pain
The lighthouse: practical self-awareness that changes your next choice
Therapy vs coaching vs intuitive guidance—what helps when
Somatic cues: reading your body before it hits the brakes
Parenting from truth (not performance) so your kids keep their knowing
Sales trauma & building values-led businesses without the grind
Micro-reflections: how to journal your day into breakthroughs

🔑 Key Takeaways:

“Autopilot is not peace—it’s avoidance with good PR.”

“Life isn’t happening to you; it’s happening for you.”

“Your nervous system needs evidence, not speeches.”

“You’re not here to endure your life. You’re here to live it.”

🧩 Try This (5–10 minutes):

Trigger audit: Note one moment today that spiked you. Later, ask: What did I feel? Where did I feel it? What story did I tell? What did I need?
Values micro-check: Before you say yes, ask: Is this aligned with my top 3 values? If not, it’s a no—or a renegotiation.

💬 Connect with Lara:

Website: larabokovay.com
IG/TikTok: @larabokovay

🔗 Resources & Links:

💣 Download the Survival Mode Exit Blueprint
👉🏾 Join the Survival Mode Exodus Membership
🎧 Subscribe to Survival Mode Disrupted: The Podcast on YouTube
✍🏾 Subscribe to Survival Mode Disrupted: The Newsletter on LinkedIn
💬 Book a 1:1 Session with Leticia
📖 Order Survival Mode Exit Plan Book
😉 Join the free FB Group Disrupting Survival Mode