FMQ 519 Talking's Over It's Time To Change

Talking's Over It's Time To Change

In this slightly-longer FMQ, we're taking a gentle but powerful step toward real change. No more talking about the issue. No more cycling through the same thoughts. This episode is all about shifting your focus to what actually creates transformation — how you want to feel.

So many of us get stuck talking, thinking, analysing… and nothing changes. Why? Because talking doesn't always touch the unconscious mind — the place where these patterns were created in the first place.

In this FMQ, I share: The real difference between empathy and compassion (and why empathy can overload you) Why talking about problems rarely changes them Where real emotional change really happens The simple, powerful pre-work for next week's longer deep-dive episode How focusing on "how I want to feel" can quietly shift things even before you do any formal process

This episode is your gentle setup — your seed — for the bigger, deeper process in next week's longer podcast. And it's beautifully simple.

✅ Your 7-Day Challenge (The Seed for Next Week)

Each day, take 2–3 quiet minutes and write down:

How would I like to feel?

Not the issue. Not the problem. Not "what's wrong". Just: How do I want to feel instead?

Do it in different contexts if you want:

With people
At work
Alone
In difficult moments
In good moments

Then… let it simmer. Let your unconscious mind start doing what it does best.

Next week, we'll take everything you've written and go deep with a full process to help make those feelings part of your natural way of being.

Why This Matters

Because talking doesn't always change anything — but educating the unconscious mind does. And this tiny step gets you ready for a huge one.

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Share this FMQ with someone who needs to feel better, think differently, or get ready for some genuine positive change. You might kickstart something wonderful for them.

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Shine Brightly 🌟

Paul

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FMQ 519 Talking's Over It's Time To Change