Podcast Episode Details

Social Media & Love: Having a Boyfriend is Embarrassing | TDA - E836

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🎙️ The Day After - 5th November Recap

The hosts kicked off the morning in good spirits, celebrating birthdays and catching up on food spots like Stock and Accra, before diving into updates about THE NEW BLXCK merch now showing live on stream. Brent teased upcoming slogan drops (“Melanin Jam-Packed” etc.), with plans to expand product options for the crew and community.

Main Discussion Highlights:

• Stephen Bartlett’s $425M Valuation:
  The team reacted to Bartlett’s ambition to build a “Disney for creators.” They noted his 90% ownership as a new model for creator-led empires, with comparisons to Tyler Perry and discussion on the importance of IP and infrastructure ownership - a clear blueprint for creative media businesses like THE NEW BLXCK.

• Plantmade Administration Story:
  Conversation shifted to black entrepreneurship, with updates on Plantmade entering administration owing £1.8M. The brand has been purchased by 26-year-old Tony Folha Alade, who aims to preserve jobs and rebuild it. The team reflected on lessons in resilience, business pressures, and black-owned brand sustainability.

• Viral Vogue Article - “Being With a Man Is Embarrassing?”
  The panel unpacked the viral discourse around women hiding their partners online. Discussion ranged from social media privacy to the deeper cultural sentiment of embarrassment in modern relationships.

  • Sade and Emman explored accountability, asking why women feel this way and whether men need to “step up.”

  • Stacy and Esther (via Discord) argued that many women are “male-centred,” losing individuality in relationships.

  • The wider discussion touched on social media validation, feminism, friendship dynamics, and the growing divide in gender expectations.

  • Listeners joined to share insights on self-worth, codependency, and balance between partnership and individuality.

Key Themes:
Ownership - both financial (in creator economies) and personal (in relationships). The thread through every topic was agency - owning your platform, your business, your identity.

Community Shoutouts:

• Big love to Amanda for the birthday cake!

• Viewers in Discord kept the chat lively as always.

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