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Back to EpisodesStop Asking "What Do I Do?" and Start Asking "Who Am I?" β with Dr. Chad Dumas
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Quick take:
Most leaders ask the wrong question. They obsess over what to do next instead of who they're becoming. In this episode, Dr. Chad Dumas unpacks how self-awareness, non-verbal cues, and intentional presence shape your entire school culture before a single decision is made.
π Meet Your Fellow Ruckus MakerDr. Chad Dumas is an international consultant, author, and award-winning researcher who helps educators build capacity for self, team, and system improvement. A former teacher, principal, and central office administrator, he's the author of Let's Put the C in PLC, An Action Guide to Put the C in PLC, and The Teacher Team Leader Handbook.
π¨ Breaking Down the Old RulesIn this episode, Danny Bauer and Dr. Chad Dumas dive deep into the inner work required to lead effectively. They challenge the surface-level "what do I do?" mentality and replace it with a leadership identity rooted in humility, empathy, and self-awareness.
π§ Key Insight #1: Start with Who, Not What- What's broken: Leaders jump straight to tactics β constantly asking, "What do I do?"
- The shift: Begin with who you are as a person and a leader. Your mindset, humility, and assumptions shape every result that follows.
- Impact: When leaders ground their actions in identity, they build trust, clarity, and authentic connection across their schools.
- What's broken: Non-verbal cues are ignored β rushed meetings, shallow breathing, and reactive tones quietly erode safety and collaboration.
- The shift: Master the pause, breathe deeply, and use intentional body language that communicates calm, curiosity, and respect.
- Impact: The culture shifts from tense to trusting. People start showing up with ideas because they feel seen and safe.
- What's broken: Leaders avoid hard conversations, turning tension into silence or resentment.
- The shift: Reframe conflict as a space for growth. Separate the person from the problem, focus on shared goals, and invite multiple perspectives.
- Impact: Teams move from defensiveness to collaboration. The best ideas emerge, and relationships deepen through honest dialogue.
"It's not about the do. It's about the who. Who you are as a person and as a leader β that's where everything starts."
β Dr. Chad Dumas
π Your Do School Different ChallengeReady to implement these ideas? Start here:
Tomorrow: Before your next meeting, take one deep breath and pause before you speak. Notice how it changes the tone.
This Month: Identify one assumption you hold about your staff that might not serve you. Replace it with the belief that they're doing their best.
This Semester: Build time for reflection into your team meetings. Make space for silence, processing, and joy.
π Connect & Continueπ― Get the full episode transcript here
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