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123. "I have a fear of triggering people."
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🎙️ The Real Reason You’re Watering Yourself Down
Podcast: Speak Your Truth and Look Good Doing It Host: Camila – Brand Photographer + Videographer
🔑 Episode Summary
In this episode, I talk about one of the biggest things that keeps entrepreneurs, leaders, and creatives from being fully visible — the fear of triggering people.
Whether it’s holding back your opinions, not posting certain photos, downplaying your accomplishments, or refusing to sell boldly — these small moments of self-protection add up. And they keep you from being seen, trusted, and paid at the level you desire.
I share the patterns I’ve noticed after working with hundreds of founders and the ways “not wanting to trigger people” subtly shows up in their branding, content, and leadership.
📌 You’ll hear me talk about:
- How “not wanting to trigger people” turns into watering yourself down
- Why avoiding discomfort in visibility creates inconsistency in sales
- The subtle ways you might hide — like only posting your “prime” photos or never talking about your wins
- The trap of only teaching instead of connecting and storytelling
- What your body language reveals about your leadership and self-trust
- Why your audience can only trust you as much as you trust yourself
- The story of my $20K month and how nervous system regulation helped me actually hold it
- What it means to be rooted enough to take risks in business — even if it means triggering people
đź’¬ Quotes from this episode:
“Triggering people is not a business problem. Avoiding it is.”
“Your body can’t lie to me. I can tell when your energy matches your words.”
“You can’t build trust with others if you don’t trust yourself when tension is high.”
“Being visible means letting yourself be seen — even when it feels stretchy.”
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