Episode Details

Handcuffed blowjobs, firefighter fantasies, and uncovering confidence—Curt shares how he went from a shy Southern Baptist teen to a devoted husband discovering his dominant and submissive sides.

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📈 STATS | 31 straight white male, married, switch, firefighter/EMT, based in Texas.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Life on the front lines and long-distance marriage

02:31 Southern Baptist upbringing and a back-of-the-bus sex talk

04:57 Late-bloomer reflections, body image, and early misconceptions

06:48 Hidden magazines and parental discoveries

09:14 Loosening shame and starting real sex conversations

13:36 Discovering masturbation, Real Sex on cable, and evolving habits

16:27 Blowjobs, mirrors, and visual turn-ons

20:24 Going down on his wife, teasing, and the “come-hither” touch

22:43 Dating older women, confidence after weight loss, and better conversations

24:09 First blowjob with handcuffs, getting caught by her mom, and early shame

28:16 Voyeurism, body dysmorphia, and avoiding cameras

33:04 Learning to feel desired and growing confidence

42:12 Dom/sub beginnings, the red collar day, and helping a partner feel beautiful

47:18 Consent, communication, and making fantasies safe

50:53 Firehouse talk, ego checks, and masculine vulnerability

57:11 Rejection, self-acceptance, and being a “shot of whiskey”

58:26 Threesome lessons: hot-tub fail vs. planned pleasure

1:04:03 Testing, STI talks, and herpes myths vs. realities

1:07:19 Married sex, switching roles, and aligning love languages

1:14:08 Rough-play surprises, negotiated spontaneity, and shared growth

1:17:24 Porn preferences, gentle dominance, and playful spanking

1:19:09 Outdoor creek sex and thunderstorm romance

1:20:36 Sex-club curiosity, watching with care, and building trust

1:22:17 Advice to his younger self and embracing constant evolution

Originally released October 2020.

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