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Working as “We” Builds integrity
We explore a structural approach to building consistent integrity by transforming the relationship with the inner critic, which is an internal protector operating on outdated data. This harsh guardian, which believes constant surveillance and self-attack equal survival, prevents authentic choice and creates paralysis rather than safety. Transformation involves shifting from internal conflict to partnership by using the word "we" to invite the protector to collaborate with the adult self, thereby establishing inner reliability. Ultimately, this internal trust and the repeated demonstration of self-respect allows the protector to soften, freeing up energy previously spent on internal control to be used for aligning actions with values.
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