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Why You Need to Accept Your Partner's Needs by Heather Gray with Gottman on How to Build Emotional Security
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Episode 2738:
Heather Gray highlights how honoring a partner’s needs strengthens intimacy and builds emotional security. By choosing acceptance over resistance, couples foster respect, reduce power struggles, and create lasting connection.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/why-you-need-to-accept-your-partners-needs/
Quotes to ponder:
"Accepting your partner’s needs is a way of showing respect for them and the relationship."
"When both partners are willing to accept influence, they are more likely to find win-win solutions."
"Rejecting influence is essentially rejecting your partner."
Episode references:
Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love: https://www.amazon.com/Eight-Dates-Essential-Conversations-Lifetime/dp/1523504463
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0553447718
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