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Why Guys Fix Everyone Else (But Don't Fix Themselves)
Yo Let's Get Real Community! In this segment from our live show, Shark and Spanish dive deep into one of the hardest lessons for men to learn: you can’t fix your life until you’re willing to look inward.
Spanish opens up about how his spiritual growth has led him to self-discipline — something he never thought he’d embrace — and how that shift helped him start unlocking patterns that were keeping him stuck. Shark builds on the idea by sharing a flow-state moment where he literally coached himself, stepping outside his own mind to see his habits and procrastination through a nonjudgmental lens.
Together, they explore the real reason so many men feel “stuck” — because they’re trying to fix everyone else before they’ve done the hard work of fixing themselves. From masculine energy and drive to the deeper spiritual side of self-awareness, this conversation blends humor, heart, and raw truth about what it means to grow as a man.
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🕒 Timestamps
00:00 — Spanish on spirituality and learning discipline
00:37 — Sharkey: Why men stay stuck in self-improvement loops
01:14 — Why fixers struggle to fix themselves
01:33 — How focusing on others helps men avoid their own healing
02:17 — Sharkey’s “flow state” breakthrough
02:58 — Giving yourself permission to coach yourself
03:22 — Seeing your own patterns and procrastination clearly
03:40 — Spanish: “You tapped into the God version of yourself”
04:15 — Sharkey’s birthday moment and call to the audience
04:55 — Preview: Sharkey’s real-life story about taking his own advice
🧩 Key Takeaways
Men often avoid their own inner work by focusing on fixing others.
Spiritual growth requires discipline and timing — you can’t rush self-awareness.
You can coach yourself when you step outside judgment and look at your own patterns.
Flow states can open deep insight into your subconscious behaviors.
Self-honesty is the foundation of true spiritual and emotional growth.
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