If you’re a woman who can run circles around most humans — yet still finds herself scheduling her partner’s appointments, tracking his moods, or generally keeping his life stitched together — congratulations, you’re unofficially in man-keeping mode. Hilary is calling it out the silent epidemic of high-achieving women accidentally becoming their partner’s project manager instead of their partner. Spoiler: nothing kills attraction faster than turning romance into a daycare.
But rather than blaming men, she hands the steering wheel back to us. How much of this dynamic exists because we keep jumping in? What happens if you stop over-functioning and let him rise, or reveal that he won’t? This episode is a wake-up call for every woman who’s tired of being needed more than she’s cherished. Because you don’t need another job title. You need a partner who carries his own weight without being micromanaged.
Episode Highlights:
The real reason competent women keep ending up in mothering roles
How “helping” becomes control disguised as care
Why boundaries are sexier than over-giving
The one-liner that stops you from taking on his “we should” ideas
How to instantly shift the power dynamic without drama or nagging
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 What Is Man-Keeping?
01:09 When You Start Feeling Like His Mom
02:33 The Real Fix: Change Your Own Patterns
06:25 Stop Overfunctioning and Set Boundaries
07:27 Flip the “We Should” Script
11:08 Love Is Partnership, Not Parenting
✨ I’m Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers.
💡 Through this podcast, I share my WOMAN-centered, SELF-centered approach—time-tested methods that blend psychology, brain science, relationship skills, and no-BS dating advice.
🎙️ Since 2017, we’ve helped over 10,000 women with a 98% success rate, making Ready for Love the #1 program in the world for women who’ve tried everything else.
✨ Ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally create the love you deserve?
🎯 Watch my free masterclass to learn the proven 4-step Ready for Love Method: https://readyforloveinc.com/masterclass
💬 Apply for a free Love Breakthrough Call with my team: https://readyforloveinc.com/apply
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