Chesko and Regan unpack a comment from a guy who swore off buying flowers for women after one bad experience, exploring why some men treat rejection as proof that "all women are evil." They discuss toxic dating advice, the pressure to perform rather than connect authentically, collective illusions about dating, and why vulnerability is essential for real relationships. They share personal stories about being broke in relationships, misreading romantic signals, and why treating women as individuals (not a monolith) actually leads to finding love.