Episode Details

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Sayen Gates, a life coach and doula from South Carolina—and the host of the Shadow Corner podcast. Sayen shared two powerful quotes that guide her journey: “It will all make sense one day” (author unknown), and Maya Angelou’s wise words, “We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Her stories remind us that the road to transformation isn’t always straightforward, and the challenges we face often have meaning that’s only clear in hindsight. Sayen candidly opened up about how these quotes shaped her path—both in discovering her own voice through poetry and embracing the process behind her growth. For anyone feeling stuck or overlooking their journey’s value, this episode is an invitation to honor your struggles and appreciate the resilience it takes to evolve. There’s so much wisdom here for listeners seeking courage to embrace every stage of their own metamorphosis.

Connect with Sayen Gates

Website: https://www.shadowcornerlifecoaching.com/

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/shadowlifecoaching/

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:30 Meet Sayen Gates
00:41 Sayen’s Favorite Quotes
01:30 Life Surprises And Meaning
03:11 Finding Purpose In Hardships
04:43 Living For Dots To Connect
06:03 Serendipity And Stepping Out
06:13 Beauty Of The Butterfly
07:37 The Journey Behind The Growth
10:00 Discovering Maya Angelou’s Quote
12:53 Poetry Club And Finding Voice
14:12 The Butterfly’s Transformation
15:09 Where To Find Sayen Gates
16:00 What Is Shadow Corner
17:39 Embracing Your Shadow Self
18:32 Closing Reflections And Takeaways