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Uninvited Guests - Three Skills Great Marriages Have in Common
Have you ever forgiven someone who hurt you, only to have resentful feelings begin to fester a short time later? How does that scenario change when it is your spouse who caused you pain? In this program, Chip explains why forgiveness is a powerful skill couples need to harness. Learn about the dangers of unresolved conflict in relationships and the freedom that comes when you genuinely say, “I forgive you.”
Introduction:
- The foundation of a great family begins with a deep, intimate marriage.
Three skills for a great marriage:
- Skill #1: FORGIVING
- Skill #2: COMMUNICATION
- Skill #3: RESOLVING CONFLICT
Forgiveness – What it’s not and what it is:
- Forgiveness is NOT a quick fix or an excuse to be a “doormat” by repeatedly accepting hurtful behavior without addressing the root issues
- Forgiveness IS a spiritual discipline that involves three distinct parts:
- It’s a DECISION
- It’s a PROCESS
- It actually is ACCOMPLISHED
The parable of the unforgiving servant:
- Matthew 18:21-35
Three-part method for forgiveness:
- Act: Choose to forgive.
- Process: Actively pray and bless the person with your words and actions.
- Accomplished: The true test of forgiveness is when you can genuinely rejoice in the other person’s success and well-being.
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