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What Keeps Emotional Pain Alive: Avoidance and Meaning-Making
Emotional pain persists primarily due to two common, yet counterproductive, strategies: avoidance and meaning-making. We explore how buried pain, originating from overwhelming past experiences, resurfaces as distressing sensations, and how our natural impulse is to avoid these feelings through various behaviors, such as overthinking, addiction, or constant busyness—strategies that ultimately keep the emotional energy stuck and unreleased. Furthermore, the mind often rushes to assign meaning to the pain, confusing present triggers with the original source and creating a "feedback loop" where thoughts generate new suffering faster than the body can heal the old. True emotional healing requires the willingness to fully feel the sensations without resisting or interpreting them—allowing the feeling to naturally rise, crest, and fall until the accumulated emotional energy is finally discharged.
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