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What if your greatest strengths aren’t the ones listed on your résumé, but universal traits we all share? 

Positive psychology shows us that tapping into these character strengths can transform how we work, lead, and connect with others. 

These aren’t just feel-good ideas; they’re proven tools for resilience, performance, and deeper human connection.

Fortunately, this week’s guest brings exactly the expertise we need to show how these character strengths can transform our work and leadership.

Natalya Pestalozzi is a professional certified coach through the International Coaching Federation and a positive psychology expert with a Master’s in Applied Positive Psychology. She trains practitioners worldwide through the Flourishing Center’s Certificate in Applied Positive Psychology program and coaches leaders in private equity, nonprofits, think tanks, and the federal government. Through her own journey in motherhood, she has a special passion for coaching parents before, during, and after pregnancy.

In this episode, Natalya shares how positive psychology goes beyond “toxic positivity” and equips us with the tools to flourish. She introduces the 24 VIA character strengths, explains how to spot and balance them in yourself and your team, and shows why cultivating these universal traits builds stronger trust, collaboration, and authentic leadership.

In the extended episode, Natalya reveals what to do when someone says they don’t want to change because they see it as inauthentic, and she shares the five character strengths most correlated with happiness and life satisfaction.

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Conversation Topics:

• (00:00) Introduction
• (02:32) How positive psychology differs from toxic positivity
• (06:53) The PERMA model and the role of strengths in engagement
• (10:20) Examples of VIA character strengths in the workplace
• (14:20) Why it’s sometimes hard to use our strengths at work
• (17:40) Overuse and underuse of strengths
• (19:27) Practical ways to grow and show strengths as managers
• (23:41) Which strengths are particularly helpful for managers
• (27:23) A story of a great manager and early career mentorship
• (33:41) [extended episode] Aligning strengths and values for authentic growth
• (37:11) [extended episode] Ideas for weaving these strengths into team culture

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