Every birth has a moment that feels impossible. For many women, it comes right before the pushing stage — a sudden rush of overwhelm, doubt, or fear. This is what I call 'The Wobble'.

In this episode of The Ultimate Birth Partner Podcast, I’m diving deep into this essential topic. You’ll learn:

• What the Wobble really is — why it happens, when it usually shows up, and how to recognise it
• Why it’s not a crisis, but a turning point in labour
• What partners can do in the moment to support her with calm, strength, and reassurance
• The words and actions that help most (and the ones to avoid)
• How to protect the birth space so she feels safe, supported, and able to move through it

The Wobble can sound like:

* 'I can’t do this anymore'.

* 'Something’s wrong'.

* 'I want to stop'.

But instead of signalling failure, these words often mean she’s closer than ever to meeting her baby. With the right support, the wobble passes — and she finds her strength again.

If you’re a birth partner, this episode is also for you. Your steady presence in this moment can make all the difference.

Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode

• Download the Wobble Cheat Sheet for your partner: Here
• Explore my Discover Your North Star course for tools and strategies to prepare for birth: Here
• Follow me on Instagram for more tips and resources: Here

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