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Why We Run from the Love We Crave: Emotional Scarcity, Abundance Panic, and the Teaspoon Approach
Published 5 months ago
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Explores the puzzling human behavior of pulling away from affection in close relationships, even while desiring warmth and closeness. It draws an analogy to someone raised with food scarcity, whose body struggles with sudden abundance: in the same way, people who grew up where affection was limited or inconsistent may feel overwhelmed by a partner’s intense interest, interpreting it as suffocating rather than caring. This reaction isn’t a moral failing but a logical adaptation to past emotional deprivation, often misread by partners as “commitment phobia.” The passage encourages avoidant individuals to communicate their need for gradual, manageable expressions of love, making clear that this pacing reflects a difficult past rather than a lack of desire for intimacy.
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Produced by:
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