Episode Details

Why do so many LGBTQ kids wait until college to come out, and what does that mean?

In this insightful and compassionate episode, Heather Hester explores why college becomes a powerful turning point for many LGBTQ young people and what parents and allies need to understand. From the need for distance and safety to the importance of chosen community, you'll learn how to support your child without making it about you (no judgement or shame on you, we promise!)

1. Understand why coming out often begins with identity ownership not rejection of family
2. Learn how to respond with curiosity and trust, even when you feel left out
3. Discover the most meaningful things you can say and do to support your child from afar

Press play and walk away with the insight, grace, and grounded tools to support your LGBTQ+ child whether they’re just beginning to open up, or finding themselves far from home.

Resource Spotlight

1. Stages of Coming Out Episode
2. The Trevor Project — A lifeline for LGBTQ+ youth, offering 24/7 crisis support, peer connection, and resources to navigate coming out safely.
3. Campus Pride — A national nonprofit that helps students find LGBTQ+-friendly colleges and universities, and works to make campuses safer and more inclusive.
4. GLAAD Coming Out Guide — A practical, affirming guide with language, ideas, and steps for young people deciding when and how to come out.
5. PFLAG National — The largest organization for parents and families of LGBTQ+ people, with chapters nationwide offering support and education.

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