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Why Your Intense Crush Is a Psychological Echo: The Shadow Self and the Trap of Trauma Attraction
Published 5 months ago
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Examines the psychological forces behind developing a crush, suggesting that attraction is rarely random but shaped by unconscious influences, past experiences, and unresolved wounds. Drawing on Carl Jung’s idea of the shadow self, it proposes that people are often drawn to those who mirror their unacknowledged or repressed traits, or who embody an idealized version of themselves. It also discusses the similarity attraction effect and self-essentialist reasoning, which describe how individuals tend to feel more attracted to those who share core beliefs they consider central to their identity. However, it cautions that this pull can become unhealthy when it unconsciously repeats old trauma patterns, leading someone to mistake familiar pain for genuine connection.
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Produced by:
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