Episode 13
Why You Resist Feeling Bad (And How It Holds You Back as a Founder)
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00:00 – Intro + today's topic: “shadows” and the parts we deny
01:30 – Jesse’s shadow: the victim
03:00 – Why founders avoid “weak” emotions like sadness, shame, helplessness
05:00 – What’s the point of all this inner work? (Andrew challenges the premise)
06:30 – Peace vs. success: what are founders really after?
08:00 – Resistance is what drains you, not action
09:30 – Integration vs. high: wholeness as the goal
11:30 – “If you can’t be happy now, you won’t be happy then”
12:30 – The cost of repressing emotion: risk aversion, stuckness
15:00 – “Who would I be if I weren’t afraid to fail?”
17:00 – The loser shadow: Dave’s story
18:30 – How founders self-limit by avoiding identity threats
21:00 – What is a shadow? (The theory)
23:00 – Projection, judgment, and your hidden parts
25:00 – Accepting reality vs. resignation
27:00 – Reality distortion field vs. future vision
29:00 – Why fear of being a fraud stops growth
30:30 – How acceptance leads to effective action
33:00 – The power of admitting doubt
34:30 – Jesse’s pitch vs. Andrew’s pitch: truth builds trust
36:00 – Authenticity, vulnerability, and leadership
37:00 – Self-awareness is a prerequisite to shadow work
38:00 – Self-discovery vs. self-improvement
40:00 – How to find your shadow: what irritates you in others?
42:00 – Andrew’s trigger: negativity and complaining
44:00 – What to do with your shadow (practical exercises)
46:00 – Persona party, exaggeration, and expression
48:00 – Final thoughts and experiment: 5 daily complaints
What You’ll Learn:
In this episode, Jesse, Dave, and Andrew dive deep into the uncomfortable but transformative topic of shadow work—the parts of ourselves
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