1094. Inside the Fertility Fight: The Cost of IVF, Miscarriage Recovery & Maria’s Surrogacy Advice For Rebecca Zamolo

Hey Heal Squad! In Part 2 of our powerful chat with digital creator and mom-of-one Rebecca Zamolo, we dive into the emotional aftermath that no one prepares you for.

Rebecca gets honest about what it was like to finally get pregnant after years of IVF and surgery—only to be met with anxiety, grief, and PTSD instead of the joy she expected. From high-risk pregnancy fears to the moment she almost quit YouTube altogether, this episode explores what happens when your dream comes true… but healing still hasn’t arrived.

We also talk about miscarriage, the pressure to show up for millions online while breaking inside, and how she and her husband made the decision to grow their family via surrogacy. Rebecca shares what she’s learned about letting go of control, navigating grief, and how to prepare emotionally for baby #2 when your heart’s still healing from baby #1.

This one’s for anyone who's ever had to keep hoping, even when it hurts.

HEALERS & HEAL LINERS:

Healing after IVF takes more than a pregnancy. Even after a successful round, Rebecca still faced anxiety, grief, and PTSD from her previous loss. Emotional healing doesn’t automatically follow physical outcomes—it requires space, support, and time.
You don’t have to “stay strong” all the time. Rebecca opens up about the pressure to be positive for others while silently struggling. She reminds us that giving yourself permission to not be okay is a crucial part of real healing.
It’s okay to reconsider your path. After years of chasing content creation success, Rebecca nearly walked away from YouTube. Her story shows that healing may require stepping back from what no longer aligns—even if it once did.