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#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on Spanking, Sadism & the Psychology of Pain
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What's it like to be a disciplinarian?
In this episode, MistressBaton — a South African disciplinarian Domme — shares her story of power, discipline, and erotic devotion.
We discuss:
- The spark of sadism and why it’s not always sexual.
- Misconceptions about sadists and corporal punishment.
- Research showing BDSM sadists score lower on “dark traits”.
- Baumeister’s idea of masochism as an escape from the self.
- What makes a spanking scene unforgettable.
and so much more!
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Stay perverted,
Emma