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Back to EpisodesDevah Curlechéile: How Conscious Touch Regulates the Nervous System & Rewires Trauma in Your Body | #156
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While the sexual wellness industry exploded 850% since 2020, most approaches still miss the mark. In this episode, we sit down with Devah Curlechéile, an Irish sensual remembrance coach who's pioneering a radical approach to sexual healing that doesn't require years of talk therapy—or even taking your clothes off. This refreshing conversation offers a compassionate, trauma-informed approach that honors both ancient wisdom and modern understanding of nervous system healing.
EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS
- "Worrying is praying for the worst possible outcome" - Devah's perspective on anxiety patterns
- Love as medicine: Devah explains how showing up in "complete loving acceptance" is the core of his healing approach
- The presence factor: Why being calm, slow, and present creates the foundation for healing touch
- Beyond goal-oriented sex: Moving from "did you get some?" language to co-creative intimacy
- Eye gazing as medicine: How this simple practice can feel like a psychedelic experience
- 24-hour healing sessions: Starting with herbal tea to activate relaxation responses, then moving through breath work, touch, and emotional processing
- Cultural programming: How shame around sexuality affects our nervous system's ability to receive pleasure
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