Episode Details

In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Ryan Frankowski—also known as Franco from the Mocktails or Messy podcast—for a candid and motivating conversation about growth, transformation, and what it truly takes to hit your “next level.” Ryan shares the powerful quote that’s driving his journey right now: “Your next level requires a new level of you.” Together, we unpack what it means to shed old habits, step into discomfort, and embrace personal metamorphosis—even when it means outgrowing relationships or confronting our excuses. Ryan gets real about his own story, from tackling shyness while bartending as a teenager to giving up alcohol and marijuana to unlock his true potential. Through honest stories and relatable setbacks, we dive into imposter syndrome, mental roadblocks, and the difference between just passing time and intentional growth. Tune in for practical wisdom, a ton of inspiration, and actionable insights on how to level up—starting from the inside out.

Connect with Ryan Frankowski

Website: https://www.mocktailsormessy.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanfrankowski/

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Chapters

00:00 Diving Into Discomfort
00:50 Meet Ryan Frankowski
01:24 Ryan’s Favorite Quote
02:05 The Meaning Behind The Mantra
02:29 Life Changes and Sobriety
03:06 Shedding Old Habits
04:03 Blame Versus Accountability
05:06 Learning From Early Struggles
06:06 Finding Your Unique Strength
07:01 Building Skills Through Action
07:45 Taking The Leap
08:20 Growing By Doing
09:07 Facing Fear And Imposter Syndrome
10:14 Real Confidence Comes From Action
10:42 Staying Accountable
11:01 Overcoming Self-Doubt
12:13 Lessons From Bartending
13:06 Dealing With Failure And Fear
13:47 Protecting Your Peace
15:10 Being Intentional About Growth
16:27 Embracing Constructive Feedback
18:26 Passage Of Time Isn’t Growth
19:41 Doing The Work Yourself
20:02 Escaping The Hard Work
20:30 Surrounding Yourself With Growth
21:15 Growth Requires More Than Time
21:43 Final Insights And Thanks
22:13 Name Pronunciation And Wrap-Up
22:42 Where To Find Ryan
23:05 Closing Thoughts And Next Time