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Have you ever wondered what happens when you finally pull away from a dismissive avoidant partner? Instead of you chasing, the roles reverse—and it can change everything. In this episode, Thais Gibson explains the psychological and emotional impact your distance has on a dismissive avoidant, why it triggers them differently than when you over-give, and how this dynamic can either spark growth or reinforce disconnection .

You’ll learn how avoidants process separation beneath the surface, why your boundaries often awaken feelings they’ve been avoiding, and how to use space intentionally without falling into power struggles.

You’ll learn:

• ✅ What pulling away signals to a dismissive avoidant at the subconscious level

• ✅ Why avoidants may begin to recognize your worth only once you stop over-pursuing

• ✅ How your emotional independence can reduce their fear of engulfment

• ✅ The difference between pulling away with resentment vs. pulling away with healthy self-respect

• ✅ Practical ways to hold your ground while leaving the door open for healthier reconnection

• ✅ Why creating balance between closeness and autonomy is key to secure love

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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