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Helping Kids Grow Independence Without Losing Sleep
Episode 1329
Is it ever safe to let your 11- or 12-year-old walk to the park, ride their bike, or visit a friend without you? For many parents, just the thought makes the stomach clench. But here’s the twist: the riskiest thing might be never letting kids take risks at all.
In this episode, Justin and Kylie Coulson unpack the independence dilemma that defines modern parenting. You’ll hear why today is the safest time in history for children (despite our fears), how to balance risk and safety, and the practical steps that build confidence — in both kids and parents.
KEY POINTS:
- The difference between danger and risk — and why it matters.
- Why 24/7 news and social media fuel parental anxiety.
- How staged independence builds resilience and confidence.
- The power of community connections in keeping kids safe.
- Teaching situational awareness instead of “stranger danger.”
RESOURCES:
- More parenting resources at happyfamilies.com.au
- The Case For Risky Play in an Age of Overprotection [Article]
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