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Bougie Defined: From Bourgeoisie to Bottle Service

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Season 1 Episode 232

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Let’s start with the obvious question:

What does “bougie” even mean anymore?

Once upon a time—say, in Marxist textbooks and 1990s grad school syllabi—“bourgeoisie” referred to the capitalist class. People who owned property, managed factories, and wore neckties to dinner. But over time, the word evolved. It slipped off the pages of political theory and found its way into brunch menus, wellness retreats, and Instagram captions. It lost its seriousness. And it got… funny.

Today, “bougie” isn’t about your net worth.

It’s about your energy.

It’s the $17 smoothie.

The Diptyque candle lit before takeout arrives.

The “we’re doing Italy” trip that’s secretly a group Airbnb split six ways.

It’s oat milk with a side of identity.

To be bougie in 2025 is to live in a carefully curated bubble of selective luxury. You don’t need to be rich—you just need to look like you’re on your way.

So… Who Counts as Bougie?

There’s no one template. But chances are, if you:

·       Have a skincare fridge (or follow someone who does)

·       Think about your capsule wardrobe while reading about "quiet luxury"

·       Refer to your dog as a “rescue” even though he wears a bandana from The Row

·       Have used the phrase “curated” to describe a dinner party, a closet, or a life

·       Have a “friend who’s a chef” and can tell you the difference between three types of sea salt

…you might be bougie. Or bougie-adjacent. Or on a very tasteful path toward full-blown faux-affluence.

What Bougie Is Not

Let’s clear something up: bougie ≠ basic.

Basic is pumpkin spice. Bougie is cold-pressed pumpkin foam infused with cardamom from a farm-to-cup espresso bar in Copenhagen.

Basic is Uggs. Bougie is shearling-lined suede boots from a Scandi brand that only sells through one Brooklyn boutique and doesn’t believe in advertising.

Bougie tries hard, yes—but tries hard strategically. It’s the art of self-presentation… disguised as effortlessness.

And it’s not new money either—not quite. New money buys. Bougie borrows, refinances, and rents the appearance of status. New money shows off. Bougie arranges the objects on its shelf until the brand logo just happens to peek into frame.

A Social Class Without an Address

Bougie people don’t all live in the same zip code. They’re scattered across cities, coasts, co-working spaces, and well-lit rentals with arched mirrors and lots of “natural light.” What unites them isn’t geography—it’s aesthetic alignment.

You can be bougie in Austin, Atlanta, or Antwerp. You just need a tote bag with the name of a bookstore no one else has heard of. You need opinions on linen. You need to own one thing in olive green and describe it as “earth-toned.” You need to say “We’re doing a detox right now,” even if “we” just means you and your juicer.

Why It Matters

This book doesn’t exist just to laugh at the bougie—it exists because they’ve won. They control the vibe. They shape perception. They don’t just influence—they curate influence.

Bougie people aren’t gatekeepers in the obvious way—but they are the gate. They decide what’s tasteful, what’s trending, and who gets invited to the pre-launch dinner. Understanding them gives you cultural fluency in a world where your ability to navigate a conversation about heirloom tomatoes might matter more than your résumé.

In the chapters ahead, you’ll learn how to:

·       Speak bougie without sounding scripted

·       Dress bougie without maxing your credit limit

·       Vacation bougie without accidentally tagging the wrong island

·       And most importantly, belong bougie—even if you were

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