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0148 Female Led Relationships: Staying Kinky with Kids in the House

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Season 1 Episode 48

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This one is real talk about parenting, boundaries, and keeping your kink alive when your life is anything but quiet

So… you’re kinky and you have kids? Welcome to the club.

In this episode, I’m diving into something that every kink-positive parent wrestles with at some point:
"How do you stay connected to your identity—and your dominance—when the kids are home, the bedroom has no door, and your sex life feels like it’s on permanent hold?"

I pulled from a couple of excellent articles (linked below) and shared how I’ve navigated being a Domme, a mother, and a woman with a wild, creative, and very adult job. This one’s a little raw, a little funny, and hopefully a whole lot helpful.

What I Talk Through:

• My own challenges with maintaining a kinky dynamic in a house full of people
• The exact conversation I had with my daughter about setting boundaries and owning her pleasure
• How I balance sex positivity with age-appropriate parenting
• The time a toddler brought a butt plug into the living room 😳
• Creative ways to store toys when space (and privacy) are limited
• My thoughts on nudity, shame, and breaking generational trauma around body image
• Being honest (but not explicit) with your kids when they ask questions
• Using what’s in your kitchen drawer as your next spanking tool 🔪🥄💥

“Just because you had kids doesn’t mean your kink card expires. It just means you need a lockbox, a little creativity, and a hell of a lot of communication.”“We don’t need to tell our kids everything—but hiding from who we are? That’s where we lose ourselves.

Discussion Prompts:

• How do you navigate being kinky and being a parent?
• Have your kids ever stumbled on a toy or overheard something… spicy?
• What boundaries do you hold around your identity as a Dominant partner and a parent?

Come share your story in the Patreon community—because you're definitely not alone in this.

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