Episode Details
Back to EpisodesForeplay Games for Couples: Playful Ways to Get Out of the Roommate Rut After Kids - Especially when it’s been a while
Description
Feeling awkward about intimacy after kids, or stuck in the “roommate rut?” You’re not alone. In this episode, I share why foreplay (and the “pre-game” before it) is the real secret to rekindling connection—and how to make it feel safe, pressure-free, and fun (especially for the lower libido partner).
What we cover:
01:06 — Rethinking Foreplay & Getting Started Again
02:11 — Zero Pressure: The Key to Connection
02:36 — Pre-Foreplay: Building Safety & Trust
03:25 — The Pre-Game: Flirty Connection & Melting Defenses
03:57 — Pressure-Free Scenarios: Massage Examples
06:30 — The Impact of No Pressure & Openness
07:27 — Playful Possibility: Fun Ways to Bring Back Foreplay
08:49 — Anticipation & Pre-Game for Scheduled Sex
09:42 — Building Up to No Pressure Sexy Connection
10:15 — Opening the Door to Libido & Support Offers
Links & Resources:
Start the Roommates to Romance Challenge
More episodes of Sex After Kids Podcast
Drop a comment below with your favourite foreplay rituals or questions! And don’t forget to subscribe for more real, sassy support on sex, intimacy, and pleasure after kids.