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Are you successful on the outside but feeling completely off inside? In this episode of The Guiding Voice, we sit down with certified pathfinding coach Hillary Spiritos to uncover the truth about success, rejection, and the "what now" phase of life.

We explore why so many 20 and 30-somethings feel stuck after achieving what they were "told" to want—like degrees, high-paying jobs, or property. Hillary shares her transformative insights on "clarity before certainty," how to turn rejection into a launchpad for growth, and the biggest myths about adulthood that are holding you back.

If you’re ready to stop faking it and start designing a life that feels right from the inside out, this conversation is for you.

🚀 Inside this episode:

• The physical signs you’re living by someone else’s values.
• Why "having it all figured out" is a myth.
• How to "bounce forward" after failure.
• Hillary’s 3-step method for overcoming career blocks.

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Chapters

• 0:00 – Introduction & The Signs of Living Someone Else’s Values
• 01:57 – Who is Hillary Spiritos?
• 03:41 – Rapid Fire Round: Curiosity, Invention, and Future
• 06:38 – Redefining Success: Is Your Definition Truly Yours?
• 11:00 – The "What Now" Phase: Unpacking Childhood Messaging
• 13:30 – Why We Feel Lost After Achieving Goals
• 15:24 – Clarity Before Certainty
• 16:12 – Bouncing Forward: The Role of Rejection in Growth
• 18:52 – The Biggest Myths of Adulthood
• 25:00 – Building Identity: Are You a Late Bloomer?
• 27:00 – Trivia: The Quarter-Life Crisis & Mindfulness

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