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Description
Success feels empty when your outside wins outrun your inside truth. Learn how ILR resolves identity drift so fulfillment and impact finally align.
You hit the goals—and feel… nothing. That hollowness isn’t ingratitude; it’s identity drift. Julie decodes the signal beneath success without fulfillment: your behavior outpaced your becoming. She shows how performance pressure and constant proving deplete your nervous system, and how Identity-Level Recalibration restores a center where peace, purpose, and impact can coexist.
You’ll learn:
- Why achievement can mute joy (misaligned self-story).
- How to locate drift with a calendar/energy audit.
- A gentle path from proving to presence so success feels like you.
Named references: Daniel Pink on timing (When), Cal Newport on attention (as cultural context).
Today's Micro-Recalibration:
Ask yourself: "What version of success am I still performing, even though I’ve outgrown it?"
Complete this sentence: "Success used to mean ____, but now I’m beginning to see it looks more like ____."
This moment of clarity could be your first step toward alignment.
Explore Identity-Level Recalibration
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→ Books to read (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.)
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