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This week on A Different Perspective, we’ve been chatting about building a godly family. Well, at some point – the talk has to turn into action, otherwise nothing’s ever going to happen. The question is – are you ready? Well, are you?

This week we've been talking about building a godly family on the program. The whole gist of it has been this – it doesn't matter how dysfunctional a family ours is at the moment, all it takes is one member of that family to turn back to God. To honour God and God can and will make some awesome and mighty changes.

It will probably take time. Maybe longer than you or I would prefer. But God’s timing is perfect. He's a God of grace. His heart is to bless our family to a thousand generations. All He's looking for is one Godly man, one Godly woman, one Godly child to take a stand and say, "enough of this! It is time for me to build a Godly family." 1 Corinthians chapter 4, verse 20, in the message translation says this:

God’s way is not a matter of mere talk, it's an empowered life.

That's why the ministry I'm involved in is called Christianityworks, because actually, it does. Christianity does work. So today, today we're going to chat about making that happen, an empowered life that sets about building a godly family.

You know what I've noticed, we can talk about a lot of stuff but most times nothing changes unless we actually do something. It's true at work. It's true at home. I mean how often have I been in a meeting at work and people talk about this and that and a whole bunch of stuff – We'll do this; we'll do that – but then, after the meeting everyone goes back to their work and their office. No-one does anything and guess what, nothing happens. I mean, nothing changes.

We're talking this week and again over the next few weeks, about building a godly family and it's important because our families, truly, our families really matter to us. These are people we love. These are the people who, most often, we live with. And yet, because we come home tired and we need a rest and we ignore things like, like the badly behaved child for example. We actually don't invest anything in building up the family.

There's a great proverb, Proverbs chapter 29, verse 17, says this:

Discipline your children and they will give you rest. They will give delight to your heart.

Now you and I have seen this down at the local supermarket. There's a mother with a young child, a seven year old kid, and this kid is just grinding her down with bad behaviour. But, well, she's tired. She's too tired and exhausted to do anything about it. So she lets this kid run riot. He causes her grief. He causes everybody else grief too.

Why does that happen? I'll tell you why, probably because dad is too tired when he comes home at night to discipline the child. So this kid walks all over his mother. She's exhausted and he's only seven. I mean, wait 'til the little terror becomes a teenager. I mean, just wait.

There is fruit in building a godly family, tremendous fruit. "Discipline your children" says the proverb. What do you get? Peace and a delighted heart. You sow what you reap. The problem is the sowing is such hard work sometimes. And reaping seems such a long way off doesn't it?

Let me tell you something. We've been talking about building this godly family but it ain't going to happen unless we step out in faith and start making it happen. Sure, it's about God blessing our efforts but if He's got nothing to bless then He's got nothing to bless.

I mean, imagine I'm 20 kilos overweight (40 pounds) and I decide I want to be trim and taught and terrific. Now I pray and pray and pray and pray and believe and believe and believe and believe that God will give me a breakthrough. But I keep eating and drinking the same old rubbish. I don't exercise.

Let me ask you, is God going to zap me out of the sky while I'm lazing on