Can you be warm, confident, and flirty—without feeling fake? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I coach Shahrzad, a smart, multilingual woman in Stockholm who’s great at meeting people but struggles to spark romantic connection in real life. We explore how to build social momentum, express interest naturally, and radiate the kind of energy that draws high-quality men in. If you’ve ever felt stuck between being friendly and being flirty, this one’s for you.
What You’ll Hear:
I coach Shahrzad, a smart, multilingual 29-year-old in Sweden, who’s doing everything “right” but still struggles to turn real-life interactions into romantic ones.
We talk about what it actually means to be approachable—and how to express interest without chasing, performing, or feeling fake.
You’ll hear why confidence isn’t about lines or tricks, but about how you see yourself—and how that changes the way men respond to you.
I explain the two main types of flirtation—playful banter and warm curiosity—and why one might come more naturally to you.
We unpack how being the “mayor” of your social scene (aka creating social momentum) makes you instantly more magnetic.
You’ll learn how expressing opinions builds sexual tension and makes small talk more exciting.
I share how to shift your energy so that every man you meet feels you’re already desired—and how that unspoken confidence creates instant attraction.
I coach Shahrzad on specific, doable ways to bring more feminine energy, flirtation, and social leadership into her daily life—especially in male-dominated professional settings.
And finally, I explain why you don’t have to change who you are to be a better flirt—you just have to practice showing up differently.
Full Episode Transcript
Hey, this is Evan Mark Katz, Dating and Relationship Coach for Smart, Strong, Successful Women, your personal trainer for love. Welcome back to the LoveU Podcast. Gosh, I don’t even know how many episodes we’ve done.
It’s probably close to 400.
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