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Episode 93 – The Cost of Staying Silent
Season 1 Episode 93
Meet Nico. He just finished another 12-hour day consulting with overwhelmed pharmacies, troubleshooting systems, and putting out fires. On the surface, he seems calm and collected. But inside, he’s unraveling. A simple comparison to a coworker set off a spiral he couldn’t shake. Now, each night ends the same way: junk food, numb scrolling, and a growing sense of disconnection. In this episode, Jay is joined by Allan Kehler, global keynote speaker, bestselling author, and founder of Born Resilient. Allan’s story, from addiction and suicidal ideation to recovery and speaking on stages across the world, is a testament to the healing power of vulnerability, connection, and community. Together, they explore how to reclaim your voice, the link between emotional suppression and addiction, and what it really takes to interrupt cycles of pain and disconnection. If you’ve ever found yourself silently struggling, wondering how to begin the conversation, this episode is a powerful invitation to speak up and start healing. Notable Quotes “Darkness begs to see the light of day.” — Allan Kehler “Vulnerability breeds vulnerability. Your story has power.” — Allan Kehler “I wanted to be seen, heard, and supported, but I had to give myself permission first.” — Allan Kehler About Our Guest Allan Kehler is a mental health advocate, international speaker, and author of four books, including Born Resilient. After surviving addiction, abuse, and suicidal ideation, Allan now helps others find the courage to speak their truth. His TEDx talk on men's mental health has reached audiences around the globe, and his work is rooted in one belief: no one should suffer in silence. Resources and Links Allan Kehler Born Resilient – https://bornresilient.ca/ Website – https://allankehler.com/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/allan-kehler/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/allankehleryxe/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/user/allankehler Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/allankehleryxe/ X – https://x.com/allankehler Jay Abbasi Website – https://jayabbasi.me/ LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/ YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast Join Us Next Time On Friday, Jay breaks down the difference between healthy emotional expression and falling into a victim mindset. You’ll learn how to talk about what you’re going through, without spiraling, oversharing, or shutting down. If you’ve ever wondered how to open up without feeling like a burden, this one’s for you. Until then, stay open, stay courageous, and stay connected to what truly matters.
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