Episode Details

How to be a Wellness Ally

Episode 61 Published 5 years, 3 months ago

Outline:

Welcome Sarah & Sarah's experience working with Jenn
How Sarah's balancing going back to work with her health goals
Talking about our health/weight loss goals: Jenn didn't share with roommates in college, Sarah did share with her current roommate
Doing this alone is hard & a study about having support on this journey
Talking to the wellness ally:
Has anyone share their health goals with you? Initial responses matter.
It can be confronting for the ally
Let the person on the health path drive the conversation
Grace & compassion - in meals, social plans, etc.
Make plans that don't have food as the focus, experiences and activities instead or in addition
Choose restaurants with healthful options
For dessert...offer once.
Compliments & how to notice results
Avoid being the subtle saboteur
Be indifferent to the details
When we feel others around us need to focus on their health
How to be silently supportive
Let your example be the invitation
Be balanced, your extreme doesn't compensate for their decisions
When you're on the wellness journey
Enlist the support of a coach
Find wellness and activity friends
Choose carefully who you share this with and tell them what to do to support you
A final note to the ally, what kind of friend do you want to be?

Quotes:

"Compliment the energy...or the clothes...instead of the weight loss." - Jenn Trepeck

"Be indifferent to the details and supportive of the effort, energy and commitment." - Jenn Trepeck

"Let your example be the invitation." - Jenn Trepeck

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