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How Much “Fun Money” Should You and Your Spouse Get Each Month? (Hint: It’s Non-Negotiable) | 433
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Alright, budget besties—this one’s a hot topic! How much personal spending money should you and your spouse get each month? Is $100 too low? Is $1,000 too high? Should it be cash? Should it be a card?
In this episode, Shana and Vanessa break it all the way down—from the emotional side of spending freedom to the practical steps of budgeting it in. This conversation was sparked by a lively debate in our Facebook group (come join us—it’s free and fun at budgetbesties.com/facebook), where folks shared their wide-ranging numbers—from $40 to $1,000 a month!
Here’s what we cover:
- 🛑 Why personal spending money is non-negotiable—yes, both of you need it
- 💵 How to figure out the right amount for your lifestyle and your budget
- 🔁 Why your spending number might shift depending on your season of life
- 🧾 The difference between personal money vs. other spending (like gas, groceries, or glam-up expenses)
- 🧠 Tips for automating your transfers and whether cash or cards are better
- 💳 Why separate accounts can make budgeting easier and less stressful
- 🧘🏽♀️ How personal spending helps heal old money habits and guilt
This episode will help you (and your partner!) give yourselves permission to spend, with freedom and boundaries. It’s not about the exact number—it’s about being intentional.
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